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Yeah… That Would Happen to Me.
Alivia Hadfield Alivia Hadfield

Yeah… That Would Happen to Me.

Weird things happen to me.

like "accidentally earning the nickname 'The Furry Girl'"

Somehow, this isn't even in my top ten strangest life experiences.

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Flirt, Flap, and Fail
Alivia Hadfield Alivia Hadfield

Flirt, Flap, and Fail

I have absolutely no qualifications to be giving dating advice, yet here we are. After years of deeply embarrassing field research, I've concluded that flirting only goes three ways: Flirt. Flap. Or fail. One leaves you kicking your feet, one leaves you tripping over them, and one leaves you considering witness protection after sending a risky text. Welcome to my TED Talk.

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I Have Beef With Pet Names.
Alivia Hadfield Alivia Hadfield

I Have Beef With Pet Names.

I didn’t choose this battle. This battle chose me. Because somewhere along the way, we as a society decided “Pooh Bear” was romantic… and I simply cannot stay silent.

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The Heart List
Alivia Hadfield Alivia Hadfield

The Heart List

Summer is my New Year’s, which means it’s time for my annual Heart List: 10 challenges designed to either change my life or emotionally humble me.

This year’s theme is apparently “taking gambles,” which feels concerning for everyone involved.

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